Relationship AftercareChris DiStefano

The work

The work

Body first, then the story, then the structure. Remote, with in-person somatic work for select clients.

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Just youOpen

You do not need their permission to stop running the pattern. One person changing the steps changes the dance.

Both of youAdmission

Together, when both of you want it — not when one of you is dragging the other in. Admission only.

The pattern

For the relationship-shaped hole that keeps appearing everywhere — partners, bosses, friends. We find the common denominator. Usually it is holding its breath.

What is not allowed in the room

  1. Keeping score. The ledger is how the rupture stays open.
  2. Performing for the other person. Say the real thing or say nothing yet.
  3. Leaving the ugly thing hanging. You can say it. Then you find its counterpart.